Editor’s note: Most people believe building wealth is about picking stocks… reading charts… or understanding company balance sheets.

But the real secret to building wealth has nothing to do with analysis of stocks. Or with anything you’ll hear from the talking heads on CNBC and Bloomberg.

It’s something much deeper… and more subtle. And it starts with crossing something Bonner & Partners publisher Will Bonner calls the “invisible barrier” to wealth.

Below, Will explains exactly what this invisible barrier is… and how you can smash through it.

How to Smash Through the “Invisible Wealth” Barrier
By Will Bonner, Executive Director, Bonner and Partners

Twenty years ago, my family and I moved from a row house in the Baltimore ghetto to a 12-bedroom chateau in the heart of France.

My siblings and I were as surprised as anyone. (This surprise factor is extremely important, as I’ll explain in a moment.)

But it was all or nothing for my father – no middle ground…

Between the Baltimore ghetto and a French chateau there are about 4,500 miles, an ocean, a border and a language barrier. But none of those really matter. You can cross those barriers in a matter of hours. The real barrier is a hidden one.

Most people don’t know it’s even there.

But as a Diary of a Rogue Economist reader, I want to make sure you know about this invisible barrier. Because without understanding what it is… and knowing how to cross it… you’ll never become truly wealthy.

How NOT to Get Rich

Put simply, it’s the barrier of publicly-accepted ideas about money and success…

If you are a slave to these conventional ideas, you simply won’t have a shot at wealth, financial freedom, “financial escape velocity”… whatever you want to call it.

Here’s the thing: Nobody gets rich by following conventional wisdom.

That’s Lesson No. 1: Let’s call it “eccentricity.” As my dad puts it:

When you think of eccentric people you tend to think of people who are strange, weird or even mentally unbalanced.  

 

But theres no way to build a fortune  except by pure luck  unless you are in some ways a bit eccentric. The reason is simple: Most people are not wealthy. Most people never will be. Only a few are wealthy. They are doing something different. It takes an unusual person to do unusual things. To most people, they will appear a little eccentric.”

For example, Abe Hirschfeld made the bulk of his fortune from New York City parking garages. He wasn’t afraid of controversy or eccentricity.

He bought the New York Post out of bankruptcy, writing a $2 million check on the spot. After the paper lampooned its new owner with a front-page story titled “Who is this nut?” he kissed the editor.

The controversy boosted the paper’s circulation so much he was able to sell it 18 days later, to Rupert Murdoch, for an undisclosed amount… rumored to be many times Hirschfeld’s original investment.

On trial for tax fraud in 1999, he told Jewish jokes to the jury… and got off. He gave each member of the jury $2,500 as a “reward.”

Hirschfeld once told a reporter: “Any person that achieves things and accomplishes things is a little crazy. Perfectly sane people you only find in an insane asylum.”

He has a point. Perfectly well-adjusted people form the great mass at the middle and low-end of the wealth pyramid. At the top are people who think differently, act differently… and who are sometimes regarded as a “bit strange.”

Avoiding the “High-Income Trap”

My father and I have observed this among our friends who’ve successfully crossed the invisible barrier I’m talking about.

They didn’t go to the “right” schools or get the “right” kind of job.

If they had, instead of becoming wealthy they would’ve found themselves in what I like to call the “high-income trap.”

The problem with earning a high income is your spending almost always rises to meet your income. And it’s very difficult to get rich and be rich at the same time.

That’s why the surprise factor I mentioned earlier is so important. When my dad bought a French chateau I had no idea that he had enough money to do that…

That’s Lesson No. 2: My father didn’t allow our family’s spending to rise to the level of his income. We didn’t have fancy cars, clothes or houses…

Dad always took a relatively small salary from his publishing business. Instead of enjoying a high income, he would put the money back into the business and allow it to compound.

Most people would take the income out of the business and spend it. This is a critical mistake. As my dad puts it:

The rich look at the issue of income differently. Partly because they can. Partly because they know that cash flow is a dead end. 

 

What you should really care about is capital growth. And you should care about it even before you have substantial capital to care about.  

 

Forget the cash flow. Ask yourself: Will this activity, this investment, this business, this career help me build capital? Or will it just give me enough cash flow to live on? If it doesnt lead to capital growth, do something else.

It’s that simple. If you want to have serious money, you have to think differently from most people. And you have to do different things with your time and your money.

Thats the invisible border thats so hard to smash through.

Most people figure the guy who has more money does the same thing they do – only better. Or maybe he is just luckier. Truth is it’s not luck. And he’s not doing the same thing at all…

Aim to Fail

Take my story, for example…

Rather than following my friends to law school or Wall Street, at 23 I launched a start-up publishing company. And I learned about how the world works – the hard way.

My friends got MBAs. But I got beaten up. (The real business world is tough!) I exited my first business too early. The year after I left sales jumped by over $10 million. And my investments – leveraged bets on South Florida real estate (ha, ha) – went down in spectacular fashion in the 2008 meltdown.

But I was already on the move. In 2007, I went to Buenos Aires, Argentina, to setup another business and to invest in real estate there.

I bought a beautiful five-bedroom house on an island in the delta of the Rio de la Plata that came with a boat and its own staff. (All that costs less than a small condo where I live now in South Florida.)

The Spanish-language publishing company I launched has done pretty well. But I got beat up in South America too. Argentina is not an easy place to do business – especially for a gringo. Every official in the city wanted to a piece of my small business.

You see, I wasn’t interested in how the world of finance and business was supposed to work. I wanted to know how it really worked. And that’s something you won’t learn in school. It’s something you discover every day: by looking… asking questions… and thinking for yourself.

And by failing… 

That’s Lesson No. 3: Failure is critical to success. Most people are afraid of failing. The rich are not.

But here’s the thing: You want to fail in a survivable way.

As my dad likes to say: “If you’re not all dead they can’t bury you.”

Same goes for investing. The rich understand that the goal is to never die completely. That’s why they never concentrate their investments in single positions.

This is particularly true of positions presumed to be “safe.” Often, investments most folks believe to be the safest are dangerously unsafe.

Portfolio planners refer to this as “diversification,” but it is not just about spreading your money around. You don’t want to merely toss seeds anywhere and see which ones grow. You want to carefully plant different seeds in the places they are most likely to flourish.

Now, I’ve moved onto a new project – the most exciting one so far. Along with my father, I’ve set up another small publishing start-up called Bonner & Partners, which publishes Diary of a Rogue Economist along with three new investment advisories: Bonner & Partners Investor NetworkBraden Copelands Building Wealth and Bonner & Partners Platinum.

This time, our aim is to help others cross the invisible barrier to wealth… just like my family did.

If you’d like to learn more about crossing the invisible barrier in your own life – and how the rich really get rich – you can read my full report here.